Unexpected Turn of Events

1328 January 4 – July 16, 2026 Unexpected Turn of Events

We were not sure whether or not we would continue this blog.  We decided though that this was our story.  This had been a record of our travels.  The journey we have found ourselves on for the past 6 months was unexpected.  I had a follow-up mammogram in December and after that, a biopsy.  I was diagnosed on December 15th with breast cancer.  We had planned to leave Atlanta and then we were going to spend the winter in Florida.  We cancelled those plans and after the New Year, we drove back to Maryland.

It was too cold to stay in our RV.  Kyle and Allison, knowing that we would be at home for a long time, cleared out the workout room and made a beautiful bedroom for us.  I had an MRI and saw the surgeon within days of our return.  Surgery was on January 30th. 

The next day, we had a big party for Wade’s second birthday.  That little boy has brought me so much joy.

We took a quick trip to Rock Hall, Maryland as I was recovering.  It was very cold and the ground was covered with ice.  We saw lots of wildlife at Eastern Neck Wildlife Refuge.

Chemo started at the end of February.   4 cycles, one every three weeks…12 weeks altogether.  Between cycles we planned trips!

At the beginning of March, on my good week, we went to Solomon’s Island for several days.

At the end of the month when I was feeling well, we went to Ocean City.

One more quick trip to Colonial Beach.

One week after my last chemo session, we went to Atlanta.  We wanted to be there for Austin’s birthday. 

Before radiation began, we went to Cape Charles for my birthday.

These small trips did so much to lift our spirits and to get us ready for whatever was to follow.

We also had some good quality time with Tim’s family.

More fun!

20 sessions of radiation were complete on July 9th.  The past six months have taught me a lot.  I value so much all of the neighbors, family, and friends who have been there to provide unwavering support and encouragement.   This support took the form of texts, calls, visits, cards, lotions, sourdough bread, potato pancakes, origami talismans, Jeni’s ice cream, lunches, dinners, flowers, and so much more.  I was continuously amazed by the outpouring of love and the generosity of my village.  Please know that I will pay it forward!

Most of all, Tim was my constant, my rock.  He was with me through it all.  He saw me on my hardest days and he was there with a strong and steady manner and a Body Armor.  We always promised that we would be there for one another…and the proof was in his actions.  I am truly loved and blessed.

Now that we have completed this portion of our journey, we are ready to look forward and get back on the road.  This last night we said goodbye to Kyle.  Kyle and Allison have done so much for us, there are no words of thanks that would be adequate.  We are so very grateful.  We are sad to leave but we are eager for some time to explore, some time to slow down and breathe and recover.

Atlanta Christmas 

1327 December 14 – January 3, 2026 Atlanta Christmas 

We tried to stay at a Cracker Barrel on the way to Atlanta but it was just too cold.  We drove another hour before we found a campground where we could utilize the electric hookup to stay warm.

We celebrated Christmas with David and his family.  We had lots of fun with the big boys.  They decorated a gingerbread house and we made gingerbread cookies.  We had sleepovers and played lots of games.  We walked at Stone Mountain and we went bowling.  Oliver and Austin are all about baseball and they were thrilled to learn that they had spots on rosters for the spring.  Lots of time was spent in the backyard practicing skills…in the rain and the cold…they were eager to play!

We also watched football…lots and lots of football!

We celebrated the New Year by sitting under the table and eating 12 grapes!

We watched football. Lots and lots of football…

We celebrated New Year 2026 with delicious charcuterie and by eating 12 grapes under the table!

Holidays at Home

1326 November 26 – December 13, 2025 Holidays at Home

We had a wonderful warm welcome in Reisterstown.  We were invited to spend Thanksgiving with Allison’s family.  Too much delicious food and lots of conversation and love. 

Our time at home passed quickly with visiting and Christmas preparations.  We celebrated early with family. 

We had lots of fun with Wade.

Our last day at home we had double parties.  We started at the D’Amato Family Annual Tortellini Night. 

We ended the day at a party for our good friend Debbie who was turning 60! 

On December 14th we woke up to several inches of snow.  Kyle plowed the driveway and Tim scooped the snow off of the RV slideouts and roof.  I went out to buy salt so that we could navigate through the icy spots.  Finally, we were on our way to Atlanta.